There are no "failed" relationships

Our perspective about relationships and the ending of relationships influences our moods as well as our healing process. Here's an example and some advice for those healing from a breakup.
CURE disease relationshiptips relationshipadvice LIFE breakups healing
0
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Just got an email from one of my clients who is healing through a breakup of a long-term relationship. The holidays are triggering memories.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Replying to the email got me thinking about how much our perspective influences our moods.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
For one, if you believe that you've had a "failed relationship" wouldn't that trigger feelings of shame and disappointment?
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
It's a gift when someone you've been in a relationship with releases you because they're not 100% into it.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Who wants to be in a relationship with someone when it's imbalanced and the other souls is not 100% into it?
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Relationships are best when the feelings, interest, investment and commitment are mutual.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
How we frame an experience can move the healing along.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Relationships that don't last are not "failures." They've run their course from beginning, middle and end.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
We all grow through things in life, ultimately to make us better, including relationships that run their course.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
My advice to this soul and anyone growing through a breakup right now is this....>
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Life is for living. There isn't anyone or any relationship, even the best of relationships, that can take away our joy for living.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Focus on what inspires you, excites you and comforts you. Smile a lot and laugh often, even through the tears. It heals.
HEALING TRUTH CENTER @HealingTruthCtr
Instead of looking at breakups as "failed relationships" I encourage souls to look at breakups as gifts.

Comment

No comments yet. Write yours!

Login and hide ads.